Normally This Would Make Her An A**Hole, But Wait Till You Read About How This Bride-to-be Has Been Acting

A concerned sister recently posted on Reddit's Am I the A**Hole (AITA) subthread asking if she was an AH for asking her sister to remove her from the wedding.

Bride or a Bridezilla?

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The original poster’s (OP) twin sister was described as a “textbook narcissist” and has a wedding coming in May 2024.

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A Difficult Relationship Since Childhood

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Growing up with a twin sister who is a “textbook narcissist” has been a constant battle for OP. Their relationship has always been tense because she holds grudges and constantly tries to control every aspect of OP’s life.

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Despite OP’s best efforts to make peace, OP’s sister remains hostile and dismissive, leaving OP feeling drained and exhausted.

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Constantly Walking on Eggshells

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One day they went to lunch, and the atmosphere during the meal was tense as they discussed wedding plans. A harmless question about the MOH’s dress quickly escalated into a storm of wrath.

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