30 Qualities Men Believe Women Find Irresistible, But They’re Actually Deal Breakers

Ladies, have you ever found yourself on a date with a guy with all the qualities you’re supposed to want, but something feels off?

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Chances are, he’s fallen victim to the false belief that these certain traits make him irresistible to women.

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But let’s be honest. Ladies, you know that these so-called irresistible qualities are deal breakers in disguise.

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Trying To Make Her Jealous

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Men often think that having other women show interest in them will make their partner more interested.

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In reality, men who try to make their girlfriends jealous appear untrustworthy.

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Wearing Very Strong Cologne

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Scent is the strongest sense tied to memory. Some men take this principle too far by layering on cologne to entice women but instead end up repelling them with perfume overkill.

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Being Overconfident

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A man whose confidence comes off as overbearing or obnoxious will be a red flag for the woman in his life.

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Oversharing With His Mother

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