She Caused a Scene at Her Sister’s Wedding, Calling Her a Hypocrite, Was She in the Wrong?

A new mother recently posted on a Reddit board to determine if she had acted poorly in pointing out the hypocritical rules at her sister’s wedding.

This 26-year-old woman recently became a mother; her son is currently four months old. He’s the only grandchild on her side of the family – he’s spoiled rotten by his family, they all love him, and he loves them.

A Child-Free Wedding

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Her sister has been planning her wedding for a while. During the early wedding planning stages, her sister joked about having a kid-free wedding.

She Must Be Joking

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The original poster (OP) didn’t think she was being serious, as it was a super early planning stage.

Reality Hits

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However, when her sister sent the wedding invites out, they stated it would be a kid-free wedding.

Her Mom Didn’t Want to Be Involved

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This invite shocked her, and she went to talk to their mom about it. However, her mom stayed neutral as she didn’t want to upset either of her daughters.

She Went Along With It

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The OP didn’t try to talk to anyone else about it and said she obliged and found a babysitter because she isn’t the argumentative type. She felt upset but tried to be supportive – after all, it was her sister’s wedding day!

Day of the Wedding

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A few months later, the wedding day comes, and she and her fiancé arrive and take their seats in the crowded waiting hall.

Not So Child-Free

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While waiting for the ceremony to start, she noticed her cousin sitting behind her with her three-year-old daughter. The OP felt shocked! After it had been clear that this was a child-free wedding, seeing her cousin sit there so brazenly was crazy to her!

Someone Must Say Something to Her!

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She was sure that her family (who adored her sister) would say something to her cousin, but to her shock, everyone greeted them nicely and talked about how cute her three-year-old was. She felt appalled and knew this would upset her sister.

Her Mom Still Doesn’t Want to Be Involved

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At the reception, the OP went up to her mom and asked her what she thought about her three-year-old niece being present at the wedding, despite it being kid-free. Her mom said it didn’t matter much and that she should just let it go, but the OP was furious!

It’s Just Not Fair!

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She couldn’t see how this was fair at all, especially after she had to get a babysitter for her child.

Digs at the Photo Booth

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Her sister had hired a photo booth for the wedding, so she went with her cousin and sister later in the evening to get their photo taken.

After the photo, she turned to her cousin and jokingly said, “I guess “kid-free wedding” means different things to different people!” Her cousin was visibly shocked and looked at the bride sheepishly.

Her Sister Didn’t Care!

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But instead of chastising their cousin, her sister told her to knock it off and that everything was fine.

How Was This Allowed?

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The OP replied, “why should I? I followed the rules and left my son at home!” Her sister told her to calm down, but the OP told her sister that she was calm but confused.

People Started Noticing

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The altercation drew attention from some of the other guests, and their mother came over and pulled her aside. She told her daughter to stop causing a scene, but the OP replied, “I’m not causing a scene. I’m simply asking why different rules apply to different people?!”

She Was Ruining Her Sister’s Wedding

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Her sister interjected, told her to stop, and said she was ruining her special day.

She Couldn’t Believe It!

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She couldn’t believe her sister had said that! She was so angry that she grabbed her fiancé and left – she couldn’t even stand to be in the same room as her sister.

She Thinks She Was Wronged

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Since the argument at the wedding, her mom has been pushing for her to apologize to her sister. However, she thinks that her sister should apologize to her. 

She Might Be Waiting a While for an Apology…

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She hasn’t spoken to her sister since the wedding and doesn’t plan on it until she gets an apology.

Her Anger Explained

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She wasn’t initially mad at her sister but more upset at her cousin for bringing her daughter and her family for not saying anything when they saw the child.

She’s More Annoyed

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However, because her sister got annoyed when she brought it up, she’s upset with her sister. She feels like she deserved to let her cousin know how she felt, and because she followed the rules, her sister should have supported her!

She wants to know whether she’s in the wrong.

Reddit Users Respond

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Redditors did not take this woman’s side. The verdict was overwhelmingly the woman was wrong. They thought she was plainly in the wrong for starting a conflict with her cousin, especially considering they were at her sister’s wedding.

The top-rated reply said, “You want an apology because you weren’t special enough at her wedding. If the bride didn’t want to confront the cousin, you had absolutely no business saying ****, “jokingly” or not (hint: you weren’t joking. This is evident by the hissy fit you are still throwing.)”

What Do You Think?

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What do you think about this story? Should she have held back in chastising her cousin? Or was her cousin in the wrong for bringing her child to a child-free wedding?

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