Son’s Routine Visit to the Doctor’s Triggers Gender Identity Questions – Did the Doctor Cross the Line?

A father’s viral TikTok video expresses concern over his nine-year-old son being questioned about gender identity during a routine medical appointment.

A Routine Medical Appointment

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What was supposed to be a routine medical appointment for his two sons turned into his personal nightmare when his wife called him with some unsettling news.

The Shocking Question at the Doctor’s Office

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The video features a concerned father expressing his frustration over his nine-year-old son being confronted with questions about gender identity during a routine medical appointment.

Introducing His Son to Gender Concepts 

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Identifying himself as a “common sense enthusiast,” the father, known as “@jotojavin” on TikTok, voiced his indignation at the fact that his son, whom he described as a “boy’s boy,” was introduced to concepts of gender fluidity without his prior knowledge or consent.

The Unsettling Encounter 

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In the video, the father narrates the encounter at the doctor’s office, where his son had gone for a medical checkup before playing on his school’s football team. 

The Doctor’s Question

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The doctor asked the nine-year-old whether he identified as a boy, girl, genderfluid, or non-binary, leaving the father taken aback as his son was unfamiliar with these terms.

The First Thing She Asked

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“My 9-year-old son went in first, and the first thing this woman asks him is if he identifies as a boy, a girl, genderfluid, or non-binary,” the father exclaimed. 

He Argues It’s Irrelevant

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The father argued that such inquiries were irrelevant to his son’s medical consultation, which was meant to clear him for physical activities like football.

He Was Grateful He Wasn’t There

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Feeling a surge of anger, the father pulled over to record the TikTok video, expressing his frustration with the situation.

He revealed that his wife had taken their nine and seven-year-old boys to the doctor for their physicals, and he was grateful that she was the one present during the questioning about gender identity.

His Anger Was Building

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“This is ridiculous,” he exclaimed. “And to the people out there who think that there’s nothing wrong with that, and I’m just a transphobe or all that stuff, you’re messed up.”

‘There’s Something Wrong With You’

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“This is ridiculous,” he continued, “and there’s something wrong with you.”

Some Say He Was Rightfully Upset

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The video has sparked a heated debate on social media, with some supporting the father’s concern about the introduction of complex gender identity concepts to a young child during a routine medical visit. 

Others Say Gender Identity Is Important

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Others, however, argue that discussing gender identity with children can be important for their understanding and acceptance of diverse identities.

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